In past years I’ve done a summary of lessons learned. I thought it might be appropriate to write down some of the lessons I’ve learned in 2022. Some of these are craft, but most of them are life lessons.
- Creating a daily writing (or creative) habit is amazing and addictive. Creating an editing habit is nearly impossible because it uses different parts of my brain.
- I need a different space to edit than I do to write.
- If I listen to the words, I can hear the editing I need to make.
- Writers block can be overcome by switching media, or by mapping out the plot. Literally.
- Canada’s communities vary from town to town in the most remarkable ways.
- Newfoundlanders have the most creative expressions.
- I have gotten to know people more through their writing than by any other means.
- Business travel is not all its cracked up to be. But if you get bumped up to business class, enjoy the priority security line and extra leg room.
- Emergency rooms are barely controlled chaos, and sometimes I just need them to tell me when to start worrying.
- When I needed help, people stepped up.
- When we heal, we can’t always see the pain in others.
- Keeping my opinions to myself, is more often than not, as hard as holding my breath. But, advocating for those who are vulnerable, is as necessary as breathing.
- Life is shorter than you imagine.
- Death comes quicker than you think, slower than you want, and can be deafening in its silence.
- In the midst of pain, hope and peace wrap around me like a blanket. Hope and love don’t let go, even in grief.
- To write out my pain, I need to feel safe.
- When I feel safe, I am inspired.
- And the ideas worth chasing, are still chasing me.